Some years back, I noticed that whenever I achieved something, and am happy and glad, some of my pals would look at me like am bragging. They would look at me like that guy that is too full of himself and proud. My wins (mostly educational) looked like bragging.
Now, this is something that might have happened to you at a point in your life. Or if it hasn’t, it might still. It’s not that my friends were losers. No no no ..it’s simply because I didn’t surround myself with the people that are winners of higher levels than me.
I want you to know these few points ☘️
You have to fully understand the deep meanings to this topic. I will drop some points that will make you reset your thinking into greater positivity ☘️
1. If you want to win, you must learn from the experiences of winners 💐
Have you ever dreamed of reaching to the peak or mastering your field? Or have you dreamed of the day you finally achieve your goals?
I bet you must have! 😃 but you know the good news? You can achieve all you dreamed of. How?🤔 Good question.
You need to surround yourself with people who have achieved similar goals to yours, and use their experiences as an insight to yours. It’s quite simply 😃 right?
You want to be a winner. I know this. You know this. Nobody wants to be a loser. No one wants to be recognized as that person that had goals and didn’t accomplish them.
But at the same time, not everyone wants to surround themselves with winners. Not everyone wants to go through the stress that winners went through. Not everyone wants to leave their comfort zone that winners left!
Good news is, I believe you aren’t ‘everyone’ you are yourself and you are unique. And I also believe that as you are reading this now, you have made up your mind to not only surround yourself with winners, but also learn from them! I know you can. All the challenges you are facing, you wouldn’t go through it, if only you learnt from the people that went through it. How easy and enlightening would it be for you😃🌺
2. Let your wins speak for you. Don’t do the shouting. Let your wins do it.💐
You’ve probably accomplished a goal and you went all crazy about it. You told people. You shouted, screamed, etc. You even told your haters about your wins.
Now, don’t get me wrong, am not saying you shouldn’t be excited about your success. You should. You deserve it, it was well earned and deserved.
But here’s the thing, could you just be excited at your own personal space? Like you being along in your room, probably calling your family and close friends to rejoice with you.
When you allow your wins and successes to make the noise for you, it gets amazingly far to places you least expected. When you allow your wins to make the noise, people from around the world notice you.
A winner (like you), wouldn’t go around the place shouting about his/her wins. It’s the wins and success that puts on a pair of shoes and walks all over the world, announcing.
When you make noise over your own accomplishments, people tend to say you are proud and you draw unnecessary attention to yourself. But when you leave the noise making for your wins, people respect you the more. It’s as simple as ABC!
So now, promise yourself that as from now, you would allow your success to make the noise for you. Look at all winners you know in your niche. Do they take a microphone and announce to the whole world? Or do they allow their success to announce for them? There’s a reason for this being so. And it’s a deep reason. 👌
3. Your wins doesn’t define who you are. Who you are, defines your wins and success. 💐
You haven’t won before or you haven’t accomplished a goal before, then you think you are nobody. That’s a big fat lie!
You don’t have to win big before you know who you are. You don’t have to be very rich or wealthy before you know your true worth. No no no.
You have to know your true worth so that you can know the direction to channel your efforts at succeeding.
For you to be reading this right now, it means you are a winner. It means you are ‘win’ itself. You just have to discover your path in the journey of life.
Let me tell you something. 🌺
Some people have won and they aren’t happy about it. They succeeded, but their success isn’t giving them joy.
That’s why you must know your true self, so you can win in your niche and field. Achieving something in a field you don’t love, would you call that your personal success? Think about it. ☘️